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©Article based on the book: Power and Grace – The Wisdom of Awakening
©Art copyright Gregory Packard 2005
  
“Your beliefs become your thoughts,
Your thoughts become your words,
Your words become your actions,
Your actions become your habits,
Your habits become your values,
Your values become your destiny.”

Mahatma Gandhi  


          Values are core psychological structures by which all major decisions are made and, as such, they greatly influence your world. Inherited or conditioned values are sufficient for a successful material life; however, they cannot guide your intention to be free. No matter how hard you try, you can never "decide away" unnecessary suffering.

          When viewed from an awakened perspective, what is called "a balanced life" is often one of great mediocrity and compromise in which your values are arranged by the ogre (the ego) to suit its needs. So many who consider themselves genuine seekers on the path spend significantly more time engaged in activities that support the lesser-mind than they do in support of their awakening.  

          Often you declare a desire to change with great gusto and conviction, but may find that within a few days or weeks your enthusiasm (root: God within) to change has completely dissipated. 
Why is this so? How can you make decisions and then sustain permanent transformation?

          The core of the issue is that although your intentions are good, the ways in which you use your values to direct those intentions are subject to both individual and collective conditioning; hence, even your purest objectives are misdirected by the ogre, and you end up essentially back where you started.          

          Intention is classically defined as the aim or anticipated outcome of an action. An intention to awaken, however, will be completely ineffective without a supportive decision-making process. To sustain the conditions for awakening to authentic joy, your decision-making structures (your values) must be capable of influencing and guiding a pure intention to awaken. To ensure that your intentions to yield changes that "stick," you must reclaim consciousness that is otherwise consumed in a continuous struggle with conditioned outcomes.   

          Values that are selected and organized by the ogre are sufficient for a successful material life, but completely inadequate to support an awakening. Conditioned values cannot direct pure intentions, because ogre-values and awakened intentions are drawn to parallel outcomes.

          An awakened person's life is centered on a clear, single hierarchy of values, and when asked, he could instantly identify his primary value. That primary value will be consistent with awakening to authentic joy and significant choices made in his day-to-day life will give consistent and tangible proof of this arrangement.

          Conditioning, on the other hand, segregates values into distinct and concurrent groups - related to career, home, family, friends, hobbies, etc. The ego does this in a futile attempt to manipulate reality. 

          The struggles you experience with major life decisions and their subsequent outcomes are the results of the conflict between all of these groups of ogre-guiding principles. It is also important to understand that not only does each group have its own divergent agenda, but, at the time of deciding, each group will also have its own presiding primary value.

          As you awaken, it becomes apparent how the first big decision you ever made independently of your parents was based on the existence of multiple groups of values; the result of a conditioned intention; and a product of the ogre. You also realize that you have essentially been doing this ever since.  

Real-life example: After a carefully planned career path, Josh received an incredible offer for his dream job. He had also recently gotten engaged. He and his fiancée, Diane, loved their first apartment together, the city they lived in, and being close to her family. However, they were both torn about what was best for their relationship, and his career goals. Josh eventually made the decision to accept the offer because he arranged to spend four days per week at his work location and three-day weekends at home. He sincerely thought his first value was love, but by the evidence of this choice it was actually career.

          After about six months of flying back and forth between Chicago and New York City, both his work and love life were beginning to suffer. When four more months passed the couple acknowledged that things were just not working out and they decided to separate. One year later, Josh realized he was lonely in Chicago and that maybe his primary value was indeed love. Now he was thinking about coming back to New York to live and work. When he mentioned this to Diane, she admitted that she no longer trusted him, because it was obvious that he could not trust himself to make sound decisions.

         (The Second Insight provides a comprehensive exercise in values, Intentions for Doing, and Intentions of Being.)



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